Partners In Life

“Adults are always asking little kids what they want to be when they grow up because they're looking for ideas”
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When someone mention 'Marriage', it's always about building a family and having responsibilities like: maintaining a home, caring for your partner, having a successful career and ensuring a secure financial fund.

In the meantime, something would be forgotten: practical matters take priority over romance and intimacy. There is no more spontaneity because all your plans are now concentrated on children, relatives and family. You begin to follow fixed routines and motions in sexual passion and no more experimentation or novelty. How sad it is when comfort turns your life into blandness. Lovers and partners become ..roommates or housemates.

Do you remember what intimacy is anymore? The excitement of the early days and how every look, whisper and touch seemed to fan the flames of desire? There's also the nervousness of getting it right.

Do you remember how things were when you finally gave your heart to him and get increasingly comfortable with each other? The butterflies in the stomach eases and everything becomes about closeness, familiarity and understanding. Over the years, he knows you even better than you know yourself.

Do you remember the time when you still hold hands, look into each other' eyes, hug in bed or stop and really listen or talk to your spouse?

Intimacy can only be attained through trust and security. It isn't like running a sprint, just to get to the end. It is supposed to be a lifelong journey of intimacy between a husband and a wife. Two persons, two hearts sharing one feeling: Love.

Some people search their whole life for it..whereas some people who has found it, just let it waste away..

Some people wait a lifetime,
For a moment like this
Some people search forever,
For that one special kiss..
For a moment like this
Some people spent two lifetimes,
For a moment like this
Some people search forever..