For Argument's Sake

He: Marrying you was the biggest mistake of my life!
She: I am ashamed of myself for ever choosing someone like you!

The shouts went on and on..a never ending litany of blaming each other. If only they would stop and think..

For whose sake is the argument really for? For themselves...or..for the child who has been hearing all the shouting while crying in the corner..?

Don't they realised that though they are husband and wife, they remained two different people. They will never have the same opinion on everything. If all they do is argue..without ever trying to understand each other, then they will only hurt themselves in the end.\

Sometimes, when you are too close to one another, you thought that you can see clearly where the problem lies. Alas, in reality, sometimes it's when you are closest that you cannot understand anything. You only feel your own hurt and see what he has done to hurt your feelings.

It's at times like this, you need to calm down and take a close look at one another.