As Time Goes By II

Most of us would think we had died and gone to heaven if we were offered forty six million dollars as salary. :) Even 1 million is a lot. Even half a million is still a lot! (smile)

Had a talk with a friend a few days ago. He used to be one of the important people in the company and was always busy with overseas trip. Expensive coats, expensive cars, dining in 5 stars restaurants. You could just go green with envy except that he was very down to earth person.

Imagine, seeing him again, and his life is completely different from the last time. Like the difference between North vs South or Sun vs Moon. He has chosen to retire early at just the age of 38 years old! Hmm..so young to be thinking of doing that. At the peak of his career where anyone would gladly pay him the salary that he wanted!

Me being me, I can't hold any question for a long time. A question must be asked, if not I'll just can't sit still (laughing). 'Why the drastic action?' I asked. You can just take a break or 2 months of unpaid leave, then come back again into the game. Don't you miss all this on the spot decision making and on hands projects?

'No, dear' he said.'I have given it all a thought those last 6 months. I was tired, nearer to my limitation, no friends, no personal life. I just need to get out from the race and I just decided to do it now. While I still have my health and some remaining good years, I have decided to retire. Of course, I have been saving for this a few years already.'

I looked at him again. His white skin is now tanned, his usually short and neat hair has grown long with lots of white hair here and there, his usual trademark coat and slack has been replaced with T-shirt and jeans. But..he does look more relaxed and happier than the last time. There was no more of those red eyes from lack of sleep. And he didn't argue that much either. He has opened a shop in his hometown and have one car instead of three. But he's planning to open a resort of his dreams soon.

I wish him all the happiness in life. Do I still envy him? Yes, maybe because of the way he is so sure of his decision and as if he knows where's his heading. Would I do the same thing if I was in his place? No..Yes..Maybe.. different circumstances, different goals, different levels.. He has found what he is looking for, while I am still struggling to understand things. Different strokes..

Wonder, what does he see when he looks at me? Hmm..